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These are some of my all-time faves in each category. If I have done a review on an item, I will link accordingly.

Vibration/Clit Stim

Crave Flex 2 – Program its speeds and settings through your computer.

The Original Magic Wand (plug-in) and the Magic Wand Rechargeable (with a variety of settings and speeds; read my review).

We-Vibe Touch – Powerful, rechargeable, silicone, pin-point vibe (my review).

Anal

Tantus Perfect Plug – Slim, perfect for beginners.

Aneros Helix Syn – Designed specifically for people with prostates.

Dildos and other Penetrative Toys

BS Rainbow Pride Dildo (medium) – Gorgeous, artisan-made silicone. Smooth with a great curve for g-spotting.

Njoy Pure Wand – Amazing for g-spotting and ejaculation! It’s heavy (steel) and the curve almost does the work for you.

Tantus Adam – Dual density silicone, slightly curved, not too textured.

Tantus Vamp – Not too textured, with a pronounced head. Perfect when you want girth and length.

Lube

All of the lubes I recommend are body-safe and condom compatible. Note: Using silicone lube with silicone toys is typically not a good combo, but if you spot test it on the base and there is no weird melting or warping, you’re good to go.

Blossom Organics – A water-based lube that is really perfect for sensitive vulvas.

Please Cream – It’s water-based, with the tiniest hint of silicone (still safe with silicone toys) making it super creamy. I also really like Please Silicone.

Sliquid – All of their lubes are amazing; the hybrid is one of my favorites over all and Sliquid Sassy is another favorite, water-based and gel-like, made with anal play in mind.

Sutil – This lube is delightful. It’s a thicker gel, it lasts a nice long time. And has hyaluronic acid, which just feels super refreshing. 

Uberlube – Hands down, one of the best, longest lasting silicone lubes I’ve used.

Other

Tenga Eggs – Handy masturbation sleeves for folks with a penis. Can also be turned inside out for use with Magic Wand type vibrators. Under $10!

Bondage Tape – A great alternative if you aren’t proficient at rope work and don’t want to splurge on leather cuffs. The tape sticks to itself.

G-Spotter Pop Top Attachment – Pop it on the Magic Wand Original (or similar) and get some high-powered g-spot stimulation.

Neon Wand – The Neon Wand is a sensation toy that I consider a ‘party favorite.’ It is a fun electrical play implement with several different attachments and has a range of sensations from tickle-y all the way up to sting-y and zap-y. It also comes in red and black.

Wartenberg Pinwheel – Originally developed to test nerve damage, this device is fantastic if you like medical play or just sensation play in general. Use it super lightly over the skin for a tickle-y sensation. Also comes in 2-wheel, 5-wheel, 7-wheel and plastic versions (large, small).

For Folks with Penises and Prostates – Check out Tantus’ page for Rings, Slings, and Prostates.

For all of the products I’ve reviewed, visit my Product Review Index.