Sexologist Vixenne

Tantus Pelt Paddle 2

Review: Tantus Pelt Paddle

[I was given the Tantus Pelt Paddle in exchange for my unbiased review.] The Pelt Paddle is some serious business. And while it looks tame, it is nothing to be trifled with. When I first began exploring the amazing bounty Tantus sent me back in January, ever the curious explorer, I figured No biggie I’ll just smack myself...

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Sexologist Vixenne’s First Time to CatalystCon

I’d actually heard of CatalystCon what feels like a couple of years ago, but for various reasons had been unable to attend one until now. Illness or conflicting schedules meant I had to put it off. The funny thing is, I’ve been going to events in the local sex positive community like Bawdy Storytelling and others and...

Tantus Goddess Vibrator Dildo 4

Review: Goddess Vibrator

UPDATE:  The Goddess is no longer on closeout! However, they have both color options, now and I still highly recommend you get this dildo because it is a perfect combination of simple and textured. Let me get this part out of the way… If you are unsure about buying a dildo because they can be...

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Consent: Does the environment change how one asks?

I recently attended a relationship conference where the presentations were about the future of monogamy and nonmonogamy. There were many interesting discussions and I’m glad I had a chance to go. I networked a little and was able to connect with some wonderful friends and colleagues. But something odd happened soon after we arrived which...

Lelo Gigi 2 from Good Vibrations 0

Review: LELO Gigi 2

[The LELO Gigi 2 was sent to me in exchange for my unbiased review.]   My Struggle This was my first experience with a LELO toy. I have been wanting to get my hands on one for a few years now. I’m so grateful to the sex toy reviewer powers-that-be for giving me this opportunity....

Valentine Mani 0

Trusting the Process; My Journal & Musings #1 – Manicures & Masturbation

This is the first of many journal-esque entries about my personal journey in sex, sexuality, relationships, and related topics. The phrase “trust the process” is something we would say in a couple of the courses at school (IASHS) when ideas (or other students) triggered us, or if we weren’t being challenged enough. Sometimes it’ll be...

Tantus Mikey O2 3

Review: Mikey O2

[The Mikey O2 was sent to me (along with other Tantus items) for my unbiased review.]   First things first. This toy is girthy. The description on Tantus’ site for Mikey says it is “short and stout.” They aren’t lying. I found it to be an incredibly filling dildo. Unlike the Cush O2 and the...

Tantus Flurry O2 3

Review: Flurry O2

[The Flurry O2 was sent to me (along with other Tantus items) in exchange for my unbiased review.] What can I say? Holy. Fuck. The ridges are amazing. I couldn’t choose between shouting for all I was worth or being awe-stricken into silence. In another review I mentioned that sometimes I live tweet my testing sessions…...

Tantus Cush O2 0

Review: Cush O2

 [The Cush O2 was sent to me (along with other Tantus items) in exchange for my unbiased review.] Where to begin? Let’s start with the fact that reviewing isn’t easy. It’s fun, don’t get me wrong. But this isn’t just about wanking and then getting back to whatever else. I take notes. Sometimes I live...

Pride Rainbow 2013 G-Spot Silicone Dildo by BS 2

Review: Pride Rainbow Dildo

Through May 6th, get 15% off toys by BS at SheVibe! [The Pride Rainbow 2013 G-Spot Silicone Dildo by BS was sent to me in exchange for my unbiased review.] First of all… I just have to first acknowledge how beautiful this toy is. I can’t say I’ve ever seen anything like it before. As a sucker for...

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