Tantus Tsunami Vibrating Dildo

Review: Tantus Tsunami

If there’s one thing that annoys me when I’m doing reviews (only one, Victoria? Please, go on.) is when I’m ambivalent about a toy. It’s so much easier to write reviews when I absolutely adore a product or hate an item with the fire of a thousand suns. Such is the case with the Tantus Tsunami Vibrating Dildo sent to me from PeepShow Toys. I don’t love it and I don’t…

What to review next - Tantus

What should my next review be?

I’ve been pretty lazy with my reviews of late. That is about to change. I have two that I am in the midst of, but after that I have four toys I just received. Tantus sent me a fabulous haul and it occurred to me that if there is enough interest or demand for a review of one toy over another, I will do that one first. So here’s a quick little…

HedoVibes #85

HedoVibes Round Up #85

Photo courtesy of Carnal Queen Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form. Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list…

Bondage Erotica Giveaway

Fifty Shades Better Bondage Erotica Giveaway

UPDATE 4/11/15: We have our two winners! Thank you to everyone who entered! Please sign up for my monthly-ish newsletter and for individual posts over in the sidebar to keep updated of my future giveaways, reviews, and other posts. This is my third giveaway! I’m super excited that these books, by Alison Tyler, are the ones that were generously offered to me by the folks over at Cleis Press. In…

Short Hair Collage_wm 3.8.15


A couple years ago I wrote a post about people being more than any one body part, but a lot of people can feel very tied to certain aspects of their physicality. Identity can be connected with specific parts or the accessories we wear. For a long time my “signature” has been glasses, big boobs, and very long hair. I’d been “threatening” to chop off my hair for years now. Over…

FebPhotoFest2015 Day 28


I started FebPhotoFest2015 with a photo that included my legs, so it’s only fitting to have “bookends.” This has been such a fun challenge! I feel so accomplished that I was able to post every single day. If you missed any of my entries, I invite you to go back and take a look. What were your favorites? This is my final entry in February Photo Fest 2015! Thank you…

FebPhotoFest2015 Day 27


Yes, this one is a full-on selfie. Let me explain. For a large portion of the day I was creating the content to my class. So I’ve been immersed in laying out all of it. I took a break to spend time with some friends at their Shabbat dinner, which was so simple, and so lovely. It’s been a day of nourishing my soul on several levels. This almost a 180°…

FebPhotoFest2015 day 26 mini

TBT: Summer Memories

I finally got smart and remembered that I can do a Throwback Thursday. This photo was taken in Santa Barbara over the summer. Such a fun day! I love this image so much because I’m so happy, full of body confidence, and I’m totally in the moment. What could be wrong with that? Funnily enough (or sadly) I got plenty of hate when I shared this image on my various social media accounts. Clearly…

FebPhotoFest2015 Day 25

Trial by Fire

Wax play can be a lot of fun. The heat of the wax. How it hardens on the skin as it cools. The focused sensation as it drips. It’s day 25 of February Photo Fest 2015! Please click the image below to check out other bloggers who are taking part in this challenge. Note: This is a Shabbat candle (paraffin) which burns at a lower temperature. Never use scented candles; keep the candle…