365 Days of Orgasms (Again)

January 6, 2016

For the second year in a row, I kept track of my orgasms. Unfortunately my brilliant ideas from 2014 were not implemented, like keeping track of the exact ways I had orgasms or which days specifically. I did start to keep track in that way, but I got sidetracked and lazy.  An Orgasm A Day…Sort of I use the notes function on my iphone and I organize them by week. Sometimes I’ll add in…


They Say I Have a Real Neat Blog

May 11, 2015

I was nominated by DizzyGirl of Toy Meets Girl for the Real Neat Blog Award. This totally surprised me. Despite the active online sex education/sex toy blogger community online, it is very easy to feel isolated in this work. I put a lot of time and energy into making Sexologist Vixenne be as awesome as it can be, so this really means a lot. 1. What was the reason you decided to start…


365 Days of Orgasms

December 31, 2014

2014 was the year I decided to keep a record of my orgasms. I was curious to see whether I would have one a day. Would I have multiple per day? Would I skip any days? What would I learn about myself? An Orgasm A Day Long story short: I did not end up having an orgasm every day this year. Is that surprising? I don’t really think so. It was…


Online Dating Pt 2: Putting Your Best You Forward

September 17, 2014

The time has rolled around for me to write another post about online dating. To be fair, this is based on my experiences. Several times I’ve nearly thrown in the proverbial towel after one too many a callous conversation. Almost as many times I will receive just the right message at the point when I start to consider deleting or deactivating my profile (the latter of which I did around the time…


“Female” Ejaculation

July 31, 2014

I first have to preface this post with a word on inclusivity. As a cis female, I can pretty much only speak to my own experiences. I recognize that not all people who have a vulva resonate with the term female ejaculation and that is totally fine. For ease of writing and reading I will try to streamline it as much as I can and be as inclusive as I can, but…


Three Ways to Celebrate Masturbation May!

May 1, 2014

I’m all about masturbation! I don’t think it needs to necessarily be relegated to one month. This pleasure practice should be happening all year long! As often as YOU want to do  it! National Masturbation Month was introduced in 1995 by the sex-toy store Good Vibrations, in response to the dismissal of U.S. Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders (HuffPo). Dr. Elders presented the idea that masturbation is an acceptable practice for…


Sexologist Vixenne’s First Time to CatalystCon

Catalyst Con
March 22, 2014

I’d actually heard of CatalystCon what feels like a couple of years ago, but for various reasons had been unable to attend one until now. Illness or conflicting schedules meant I had to put it off. The funny thing is, I’ve been going to events in the local sex positive community like Bawdy Storytelling and others and upon introducing myself to people I would often hear the line, “Didn’t we meet at…


Intentions vs. Resolutions: Putting the Right Foot Forward into the New Year

December 31, 2013

Something about the impending new year makes us want to be better and do more in the coming year. Resolutions abound: gym memberships skyrocket after all the rich holiday foods; promises made to eat healthier, finally quit smoking, take better care of ourselves. What’s the Difference? Don’t get me wrong, these are all valid and important changes to make in our lives. Then why do only 8% of people keep…


Sexologist Vixenne’s Top 3 Posts for 2013

December 30, 2013

This post is just a quick rehashing and ultimately a HUGE Thank You to my readers! If I didn’t have my followers, fans, and readers all of my writing would basically be written masturbation. I am so grateful for each and every one of the people who have stumbled across my work, connected with it, shared it, and given me feedback in one way or another. So here were my…


For Vulva Owners: Getting Comfy “Down There”

November 12, 2013

Do you have a vulva? Pussy? Cunt? Twat? Whatever language you use to describe this body part, how comfortable are you with this area? The only thing I will nit pick (This isn’t really nit picking, it’s correcting misuse of terminology.) The vulva is the whole structure and all it encompasses including the inner and outer labia, clitoris, urethral opening, and vaginal opening. The vagina is just the vagina. We need to start…