Hurtin’ for a Squirtin’

February 26, 2016

Getting out the toys I’m bring for my Squirting class! There’s no demo, but I’m excited to show different options that are good suggestions to learn to gush. You can find links and/or reviews to most of these items in my Faves or Review Index. This is my twenty-sixth entry in February Photo Fest 2016! Click the image below to check out the other bloggers who are also taking part in…


Trusting the Process; My Journal & Musings #1 – Manicures & Masturbation

February 17, 2014

This is the first of many journal-esque entries about my personal journey in sex, sexuality, relationships, and related topics. The phrase “trust the process” is something we would say in a couple of the courses at school (IASHS) when ideas (or other students) triggered us, or if we weren’t being challenged enough. Sometimes it’ll be about more serious personal discoveries and other times I will share light-hearted thoughts about whatever….


Review: Mikey O2

Tantus Mikey O2
February 12, 2014

  First things first. This toy is girthy. The blurb on Tantus’ site for Mikey says it is “short and stout.” They aren’t lying. I found it to be an incredibly filling dildo. Unlike the Cush O2 and the Flurry O2 which are also dual density silicone dildos, Mikey strives to be more realistic. If I want a sensation of fullness and not a lot of “extras” I would hands down choose Mikey over…


Review: Flurry O2

Tantus Flurry O2
February 8, 2014

What can I say? Holy. Fuck. The ridges are amazing. I couldn’t choose between shouting for all I was worth or being awe-stricken into silence. In another review I mentioned that sometimes I live tweet my testing sessions… The @tantus #FlurryO2 makes me want to cry…. With joy. #reviewing — Dr. Victoria Reuveni (@DrVixenne) January 29, 2014 My Experience Strangely enough, the Flurry is the same length as the Cush. It…


Tantus Sends Me A Bountiful Box of Toys to Try

Tantus Dildos
January 31, 2014

You know that saying, “Ask and you shall receive?” Yeah, so that happened! Just last week I got an email from Tantus about an upcoming promotion for a line of their toys. So, like any good sexologist/burgeoning sex toy reviewer I inquired further. With a really quick correspondence back and forth I was slated to receive…something from the Dual Density O2 line. I was definitely excited and had no idea what to really expect other…


Review: Aneros Evi

Aneros Evi and my snazzy new manicure
December 29, 2013

I’ve been looking forward to trying out the Aneros Evi for over a year. So I was thrilled when I was given the chance to try it out in exchange for an unbiased review. A Rant, to Begin… I’d only ever seen the Evi displayed on store shelves, so I never really got into the details of the packaging. I was very exasperated to see written on the outer sleeve the…


A Lesson in Permission-giving: Or what happened when I didn’t want to masturbate

legs and arms crossed over pelvis
October 29, 2013

[You’re in for a treat, dear readers – this one has quite a bit of self disclosure.] People who know me, know that I LOVE masturbation. My blog readers may have even sensed a theme — it’s a topic I’ve written a lot about. I even have a list of my favorite things.  If it’s possible for self pleasuring to be part of one’s core beliefs then it is definitely one of mine….


Switch Things Up! Keep It Fresh! (Masturbation May)

Fortune from a Cookie - "It is impossible to please everybody. Please yourself first."
May 1, 2013

Has it been a whole year already? Masturbation month has finally rolled back around! So let’s challenge ourselves to do a whole month of masturbation practice! I’m totally serious! Whether you are partnered – monogamous or polyamorous, or living the single life by choice or circumstance, everyone can benefit from masturbation. It is a great reliever of stress; Masturbation is a way to wake up or get relaxed; It’s a…


Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby

March 20, 2013

SEX. It’s a three letter word. It’s a weighty word, for sure. It has so many different meanings for different people. Those of us of a certain age know all too well the infamous comment President Clinton said in the ’90s, “I did not have sexual relations with that woman.” For a time, this sparked a discussion about what “sex” is. Guess what? I’m bringing the conversation back! Well, what…


Masturbation May Should Be Every Day!

May 10, 2012

Masturbation has an interesting history. I won’t go into all the nitty-gritty sex-negative messages that have been perpetuated throughout time. Despite the amount of  mis-information that’s out there about masturbation, as a society we have come a long way. In the late 19th- and early 20th-centuries, self-pleasure was something insane people did. Much of the “research” from that time period on masturbation came from people who were institutionalized. (Obviously, those…