Sexologist Vixenne’s Top 3 Posts for 2013

December 30, 2013

This post is just a quick rehashing and ultimately a HUGE Thank You to my readers! If I didn’t have my followers, fans, and readers all of my writing would basically be written masturbation. I am so grateful for each and every one of the people who have stumbled across my work, connected with it, shared it, and given me feedback in one way or another. So here were my…

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A Lesson in Permission-giving: Or what happened when I didn’t want to masturbate

legs and arms crossed over pelvis
October 29, 2013

[You’re in for a treat, dear readers – this one has quite a bit of self disclosure.] People who know me, know that I LOVE masturbation. My blog readers may have even sensed a theme — it’s a topic I’ve written a lot about. I even have a list of my favorite things.  If it’s possible for self pleasuring to be part of one’s core beliefs then it is definitely one of mine….

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Orgasmic Yoga

September 11, 2013

Orgasmic Yoga (OY) is a term that was coined by Joseph Kramer and the Body Electric. It is a mindful practice incorporating conscious breath, movement, sound, and touch to sink deeper into the body without the aid of outside erotic stimulation (such as porn or fantasy).  It does not involve yoga, but it can if one is so inclined. It does not even have to feature orgasms. OY is a…

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Switch Things Up! Keep It Fresh! (Masturbation May)

Fortune from a Cookie - "It is impossible to please everybody. Please yourself first."
May 1, 2013

Has it been a whole year already? Masturbation month has finally rolled back around! So let’s challenge ourselves to do a whole month of masturbation practice! I’m totally serious! Whether you are partnered – monogamous or polyamorous, or living the single life by choice or circumstance, everyone can benefit from masturbation. It is a great reliever of stress; Masturbation is a way to wake up or get relaxed; It’s a…

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Who Are You Sexually?

Gender Unicorn TSER Trans Student Educational Resources
June 13, 2012

EDIT April 30, 2017: I’ve been meaning to do this edit/note for a while now, but it kept slipping off my radar since this is an older post. The Genderbread Person is highly problematic. You can read more about that here. I have replaced that with the Gender Unicorn which is way cuter and more expansive anyway. This question came to me during my first class back at the Institute this trimester. It…

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Masturbation May! More fun, All Year Long!

May 21, 2012

There is a lot that a we can do to make ourselves feel fabulous. Masturbation is one of them. It is a way to release our tensions both sexual and otherwise. But, if you do it in the same way every time, it might actually get boring. We wouldn’t want that. In this post, I want to suggest new ways to explore our bodies, not only for masturbation, but also…

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Masturbation May Should Be Every Day!

Self-Pleasuring
May 10, 2012

Masturbation has an interesting history. I won’t go into all the nitty-gritty sex-negative messages that have been perpetuated throughout time. Despite the amount of  mis-information that’s out there about masturbation, as a society we have come a long way. In the late 19th- and early 20th-centuries, self-pleasure was something insane people did. Much of the “research” from that time period on masturbation came from people who were institutionalized. (Obviously, those…

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