The Valley

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February 26, 2017

I took this back on February 9th but never posted it. I’ve recently had a bit of an obsession with photographing my lack of thigh gap. Having a thigh gap is often seen as a highly desirable physical attribute, and one I’ve never had. For years, I hated my fat thighs, and for what?  This is my 26th entry in February Photo Fest 2017! Click the image below to check…

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Perfectly Imperfect

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February 21, 2017

Sharing a bit of body love especially for those days that are a particular struggle. (Also I was so comfy laying in bed, I barely was able to get up to do my slight edits and post this.) This is my 21st entry in February Photo Fest 2017! Click the image below to check out the other bloggers who are also taking part in this challenge.

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The Pre-Birthday #OrgasmicYoga Challenge: Day 3

January 3, 2017

January 3, 2017 Night three of an extended practice is around where I start to find some resistance. This usually means there’s some good learning to be had, if I just trust the process. I didn’t have much of an agenda, or any direction I wanted to go in tonight which can feel frustrating. In addition to this, while I felt a little playful, I didn’t have much of an…

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You Are More Than A Body Part

September 21, 2012

Back in June while I was at school, we were exposed to many panelists and some media that could potentially push our buttons sexually. Some things were easier to take than others. Not much can shock me any more. Believe me when I say that I do have plenty of areas that can still elicit the “squicked out” response. Where many people might not want to challenge themselves on sexual…

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Sex and Gender

July 10, 2012

Growing up and living in a hetero-centric society, many people, especially those who identify as heterosexual (straight) and whose gender matches their born sex, never spend any time questioning or pondering their sexual orientation or their gender. It can be challenging to imagine other experiences if we cannot relate to them. As always when perusing my blog, I wish for my readers to step back from their own experiences and…

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Masturbation May! More fun, All Year Long!

May 21, 2012

There is a lot that a we can do to make ourselves feel fabulous. Masturbation is one of them. It is a way to release our tensions both sexual and otherwise. But, if you do it in the same way every time, it might actually get boring. We wouldn’t want that. In this post, I want to suggest new ways to explore our bodies, not only for masturbation, but also…

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